Exploring sexual fantasies with other open men or women can be rewarding and fulfilling. There are plenty of ways you can do this, regardless of what the fantasy is. Those with gay or BDSM fantasies may feel overwhelmed with the idea of exploration. Here are a few places you can look to help explore safely.
If you have a sexual fantasy involving BDSM then going to BDSM clubs or swingers clubs will be a good way for you to explore your fantasies in a safe place. In most cases you will need to pay for a membership, but it can be a good way to start exploring this darker side of sexuality. Many people have great success with this, and are able to meet the person of their dreams. You just have to be open to this exploration.
Gay and Bi Fantasies
You can explore other aspects of your sexuality by finding online forums and dating sites. You don’t need to rush in to anything, and you can be completely open with the fact that you are still in the exploration phase. For many people this is just a curiosity, and for others they will discover this is a lifestyle that is more suited to them. You can post ads saying you are looking for someone to help you explore this side. If things go well, you never know, you could end up with this person for a long time to come.